Lately, I have been seeing alot of people say that people shouldn't communicate with their exxes. I personally keep contact with all of my REAL ex boyfriends. I don't really see whats the big deal. You should be secure with your position at all times. Sometimes, exxes know us better than ourselves. They know why the relationship you had with them failed and can probably help you from making the same mistake with your current. But I guess the arguement everyone has is, what it feelings rekindle? If feelings are able to rekindle obviously, your current isn't doing his job to the full extent. Think about it...