Now let's say you've been with him for four years on and off. You've guys been through family problems, infidelity, money issues etc. You love him but feel like you need a change. He's changed, you grew up. Now, let's say you meet a new guy you really like and it seems like he has all the qualities you ever wanted in a guy. What do you do? Do you try to and work out with the person you love because you have time spent? Do you start trying to build a bond with the new person? I ask this because they say "never leave the person you love for the person you like". But what if the person you love cause you nothing but heartache and pain when you deserve more than that. Then it's always like what if you start something with the new person and you end up dealing with some of the same issues. Shouldn't you have just stayed with the person you put time in with? Tell me what you guys think....