So it seems like all of a sudden every guy has aspirations of being a rapper. Ladies, I'm pretty sure you've dated or met plenty of guys that have dreams of becoming a big time rapper. Fellas, I know your reading this like "I am a rapper, what's the problem"? The issue is, there's totally a difference between being an aspiring rapper and an actual rapper. A rapper is someone who gets paid to perform at shows, has a great fan based and is very "googleable" (my made up word). Now, a aspiring rapper is usually someone that works a job to pay for studio time, has no following and has dreams of becoming a rapper. Personally, I would NEVER date none of the above. I know what your thinking, how could someone involved in so many aspects of entertainment make that statement. Let me explain. Firstly, the whole process of "aspiring rapper" is extremely annoying. Most likely he'll never have money because he spends it all on studio time. Also, he won't have time because he spends it all in the studio. I demand a lot of attention, I just don't have the time or patience for an aspiring rapper. Not to mention the fact that I'm a virgo, which makes me a realist. Therefore, I probably won't be very supportive of his "rapper dreams". Now, moving on to actual rappers. They get to much attention for me. Hovering fans, groupie girls.. I'll pass! Sometimes I can get really crazy and jealous. Thus, I'd rather just eliminate myself from situations like that altogether. Fortunately, I'm not the only girl in the world. I decided to ask my social media followers and friends how they felt about dating aspiring rappers and rappers altogether. To my surprise a lot of girls said they love aspiring rappers. They admire the grind and hustle they put into their music. Some girls even took it as far to say they would rather date a rapper before he becomes known. They argued that known rappers usually allow fame to control them. Most women agreed with me that the fans and groupies would become unbearable. Would you date a aspiring rapper or rapper? Do you think the responses would have been different if I asked the guys would they date a female rapper?